Children can suffer emotional and mental duress when their parents divorce, which is why parents often make a specific effort to protect their kids as much as possible. One common way North Carolina families do this is by opting to co-parent or share custody, allowing the kids to have a strong relationship with both parents. However, hard feelings between the parents can lead to loyalty traps, a behavior that can be harmful to the kids.
A loyalty trap occurs when a parent acts in a way that makes the child feel as if he or she must choose loyalty to one parent over the other. Parents may be unaware of the potential consequences of seemingly benign actions, which may include the following:
These are problematic burdens to place on children, and over time, they can begin to affect how the child thinks about his or her parent.
Children benefit when allowed to maintain strong relationships with both parents after a divorce. Loyalty traps can be damaging to these critical bonds, causing long-term harm. A North Carolina parent will benefit from keeping the best interests of the children as the main priority, as well as seeking a fair and reasonable custody order.
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Attorney Mike Lassiter grew up in Statesville, makes his living serving the people of Statesville and published a book capturing the changing landscape of small town life across North Carolina and Iredell County. His keen sense of history, dedication to the area and 30 years of legal experience make him an ideal attorney for your legal needs.
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