Children are remarkably adaptable and resilient, but that does not mean they are immune to significant changes in their personal lives and within their families. North Carolina parents who are planning to divorce know this decision will impact their kids, but the specific ways it could affect them depend on their ages and development. When parents understand how a divorce could affect their kids, they are likely better able to them through this difficult time.
Toddlers and babies may not have clear memories of their families living together or the divorce, but they can experience emotional duress as a result of a divorce. Parents also need to be mindful of the support their preschool and elementary age kids may need. While kids these ages may understand what is going on, they may not be able to process it well. It is especially important for younger kids to have a sense of stability and continuity of lifestyle.
Middle school and teens may have stronger feelings about their parents’ divorce. They may act out or blame one parent. They may even have specific ideas about their preferred custody arrangement. North Carolina parents will want to offer support and the opportunity to express their feelings about the significant changes they are experiencing.
There is no ideal time to divorce, but there are specific ways parents can make this choice easier on every member of the family. One way to do this is by creating a custody and visitation plan that will provide the opportunity for a child to have regular access to both parents. Parents who focus on the needs of their kids will provide their kids with the emotional security they need during this time of transition.
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Attorney Mike Lassiter grew up in Statesville, makes his living serving the people of Statesville and published a book capturing the changing landscape of small town life across North Carolina and Iredell County. His keen sense of history, dedication to the area and 30 years of legal experience make him an ideal attorney for your legal needs.
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